Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Last week as a single

Wow, where to I start. I have no idea how the last week went by.

October 20th. I was feeling very sick, having a cold and lying in bed all day. Then my parents tell me that a few people are coming over to see me. That made me so mad coz I was in so much pain and I felt they didn't care. So I had to get up and shower and get dressed up for them. I was feeling so angry towards the people as well, even though it was not their fault.

Evening, they came including the guy and I just had to sit there with them. He spoke a few words like asked my name, studies, work etc. I just answered the questions and didnt wanna talk. Family seemed nice tho so it was ok , my anger died down a little.

Once they went my mom asked if I liked and I got so mad at her.

On this same day I got my 'friend' in the morning, so that too added to all these.

October 21st.
The family who came yesterday had said ok and wanted to come home and confirm. I couldnt believe it, I was too much in shock and scared that my parents will say yes. And then from my room I heard them talking about venues, engagement and dates and that made my head spin. I was like, whattttt, they hadnt even asked me, and they are making plans?

Later in the evening my parents spoke to me, showd me his pic and details and asked if I liked. I am so fed up of all these proposals by now. I just sat and started to think. I was not able to find any fault with them this time, except tht the guy was too polite :) And I just felt that its OK, so I told them ok. I couldnt believe what I was saying tho.

October 22nd.
Everything got confirmed and they wanted to have the nikah. I was like OMG, what, the nikah. And that too on 1st of Nov. I'm totally not prepared for this. But then agaoin I thought if its confirmed why not. And I also I prefer getting to know the guy after the nikah coz its legally not right to talk b4 nikah.

They came home today to see me and talk to my parents.And to get measurements for rings and bangles.

October 23rd.
We went shopping for Sharara's and got one at Jeychandrans. Guess who we bumped into. Him and his family. God, I felt like I could dissapear. I couldnt talk, I said no when the sister wanted me to talk.

I also informed the school and they were all very happy for me.

October 24th.
We went shopping again for accessories and stuff and Sarah joined me this time. She was hoping tht she will get to see the guy, hehe. They were at MC the same time as us but they were leaving when we spotted them. We dropped Sarah and went to Beverly Street. Guess who we bump into again? They were there.
He tried to talk to me but I couldnt say anything. I cant say a word when I see him.

October 26th.

Went to school, and told them this will be my last day till the Nikah is over.
They were all happy. I'm taking leave from today.

October 28th.
Am here writing now whereas everyone else is preparing to go. Cant believe I'll be married by the time I come back. Nyways not worrying too much coz its all left to Allah and he will be there with me whrerever I am, I know that. I hope that he blesses us with a happy life!!!

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